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Health and
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Marriage and Sex Problems:
Why Should We Take it Seriously?
by
Dr. Deepak Arora
From vary long time in
India, sex in marriage is often something which is brushed aside and
joked about. But now we have to take this matter seriously because this
is deeply related with our marriage, love, health and vary important for
a healthy vibrant relationship.
Sex related problems can easily arise in a marriage where these things
are not given the priority they deserve. How much importance is placed
on them depends in part on each partner's views and personality. For
some people the idea of a sexless marriage is unthinkable. For others,
it may be a trade off in an otherwise happy relationship. The key of
course, is making sure that both partner’s views are in synch.
Sexual problems in
marriage should never be waived off or made fun of. Your spouse may be
self-conscious of the issue already, and highlighting it unnecessarily
will not help resolve the problem. Instead, married couples need to work
together to create solutions and, if necessary, accept reality.
However, some people who experience sex problems like erectile
dysfunction, hormonal imbalance, loss of desire due to a temporary
condition (such as illness or pregnancy), inability to achieve orgasm,
premature ejaculation etc, find the impetus to maintain their marriage
very difficult.
Having an active, sexy marriage helps couples to feel connected at a
deeper level, beyond words and ideas and day to day problems. Having
difficulties in the bedroom is definitely something to talk about and
should be resolved as quickly as possible.
In the-fast changing social scenario setting out new standards for
man-woman relations, the Honorable Supreme Court of India on 21 March
2006 ruled that a wife can seek divorce for husband’s sexual incapacity
and his failure to consummate the marriage due to such a physical
handicap.
However, if you are having problems, you may want to seek professional
help, so need not to worry about this because, now a days a few good sex
clinics are there, those are giving all the services like consultation,
examinations, diagnosis, sex counseling for couples and singles, sex
therapies and treatments of sex problems to get you out of these sex
problems and have the best possible sex life.
Further more, statistics show that most people who attend some kind of
sexual therapy or treatment from qualified doctors can actually improve
their marriage as well as their health. Almost 93% of those who have
undergone sexual therapy or treatments have significantly improved their
married life.
Marriage experts agree that healthy sexual activity can save marriage
from divorce (divorce due to sex problems).
August 31, 2008
By arrangement with
www.draroras.com
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