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Hinduism 
Panchkanya
Women of Substance – 10

How pregnantly succinct is Vyasa’s account of Kunti’s encounter with Dharma!

‘He smiled. 
“Kunti, what can I give you?” 
She smiled, 
“A son.”’ (123.4)

There is no coy coquetry here, no bashfulness. A need is voiced to someone who is known and is fulfilled. When Kunti summons Vayu (123.15), she is described as smiling shyly, for he is a newcomer. Does this not remind us of another woman whose smile was also so mature and meaningful, the adolescent Kali smiling at the obsessed Parashara? Moreover, Kunti will not be dictated to by Pandu in choosing the person who will impregnate her. Her smile indicates precisely her assertion of freedom of choice, selecting the father of her son four times over.

Thereafter, too, Kunti has the last word where Pandu’s desires are concerned. Very much like his grandmother, Pandu urges Kunti to give him more and more sons. Kunti bluntly refuses, quoting the scriptures to him, just as he had quoted Shvetaketu to her:

“The wise do not sanction 
a fourth conception, even in crisis. 
The woman who has intercourse 
with four men has loose morals; 
the woman who has intercourse 
with five is a prostitute.” (123.83)

Kunti shows remarkable control over her libido here. It is not that she will go on indiscriminately satisfying her sexual or maternal urges. However, while her mastery of scripture is admirable, her words also give her away. Arjuna is her fourth conception and she has had relations with four different men. If she had summoned gods, this prohibition should not have been invoked by her. For, Pandu would seize upon this flaw and command her to gratify his hunger for sons. The fact that he accepts her argument shows that the fathers of her three sons were not gods. Thus, out of her own mouth Kunti appears to condemn herself unawares. It also explains why she did not confess regarding Karna, for that would have put her into the “loose morals” category. Her last words bristle with tragic irony: this is precisely the fate into which she thrusts her daughter-in-law. In the dice-game it is Karna, her first-born, who, on the basis of this very pronouncement, declares Draupadi a whore.

Kunti’s determination to protect her interests, Satyavati-like, is brought to the fore when she flatly refuses Pandu’s request to help Madri have more children. Despite the bravado he displays before Madri (“I know that if I ask Kunti/she will not refuse me”), Pandu slinks away before Kunti’s fury:

“She deceived me”, said Kunti.

“With one mantra I gave her,

she managed to get two sons.

I am afraid she will get

more sons than I. Scheming woman!

What a fool I was!

Had I known, I too

would have summoned the Ashvins,

and obtained twins.

Don’t come to me again, my lord,

saying, ‘Give her the mantra.’” (124.26-28)

There is also an element of jealousy in this, because in one-upwomanship Madri has consistently upstaged her.

Continued

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