Oct 31, 2025
Oct 31, 2025
       The topic of beauty of woman is, indeed, very interesting as woman        herself. It has been the favourite theme of bards of all times. It has        been the inspiration for all our immortal works of art- in literature,        painting, sculpture and so on. After paying due praise to beauty, when we        think more practically, we realize the truth of the maxim-'Beauty is        skin-deep' and also that beauty is not at all a necessary condition for        happiness.
Down the ages, as learnt from history and mythology, beauty of a woman has        brought only havoc to families, societies and nations as a whole. Kingdoms        have fallen, battles are fought and thousands are slain. The beauty of        Cleopatra changed the fate of the Roman Empire, killing so many heroes.        The beauty of Sita incited Ravana to abduct her, leading to his downfall,        however great his worth and achievements were. The beauty of Helen of Troy        was the cause for all the trouble-filled adventures narrated in Homer's        'Illiad' and 'Odyssey'. In view of these facts it is very doubtful whether        extraordinary beauty is a bane or blessing to a woman and those around        her.
A woman, of course, must and can look pleasant to make a happy home. But        this pleasantness is born rather out of innate radiance, a genial smile, a        well-groomed appearance, a tastefully selected dress and ornaments and not        out of fair complexion, sharp features, tall stature and certain standard        measurements of body parts. Being beautiful, on the other hand, is a gift        by birth and a rare thing also. Most often women who are beautiful by        birth have a tendency to be haughty, looking down upon less beautiful        women with contempt. This is a negative aspect of beauty creating an        atmosphere of jealousy, bitterness and ill-feelings among women.        Considering the natural tendency of the beautiful women to being proud, a        public pampering of their beauty by conducting beauty contests only widens        the rift between the beautiful and the not-so-beautiful.
Beauty contest in the first place, is essentially a part of western        culture. In the past few years the cinema industry of Mumbai and Chennai        have started importing Hollywood fashions much to the chagrin of concerned        elders and well-wishers of society. These fashions have vitiated the minds        of Indian youth and have made them ape the ways and manners of westerners.        The introduction of satellite channels in television has clinched the        cultural tragedy by bringing unabashed scenes of western lifestyle right        into the drawing rooms of conservative Indian homes. In India men and        women do not have the habit of hugging and kissing in public. Our        traditional sense of propriety prohibits such public exhibition of        emotion. Even married partners desist from these acts outside their        bedroom. A clear evidence of culture difference.
The concepts of womanhood and marriage in western society are also        completely different from ours. It is quite common in the West for a woman        to marry and to divorce many times. Divorce and remarriage among Indian        women are comparatively rare. In a society where lifetime marriage        compatibility is in practice, life is peaceful and progressive. It is a        mark of supreme excellence of human civilization. Lifetime partnership in        marriage ensures moral, mental and physical health. It brings real        happiness and fulfillment not found in wife-swapping western culture.
Indian women are different from their western counterparts: they do not        smoke, do not drink, do not roam the streets in semi-nudity. An excellent        sense of values are inculcated in the minds of growing children in Indian        families. The Indian woman wears the priceless jewel of modesty with        pride. She shuns, abhors the shameless gaze or touch of strangers. In our        country only women of ill-repute and sinful profession show off their        beauty with brazen wantonness. Girls from respectable families follow a        clear code of conduct adhering to propriety and decency. Indian culture        has its merits and beauty contests cut at the roots of our national,        social integrity.
The popularity of beautiful women among admirers the world over has,        nowadays, created a very vicious trend in Indian marriage scenario. In the        matrimonial columns of all newspapers and magazines we find advertisements        from eligible bachelors invariably seeking alliance with 'tall, fair'        brides. It is surprising to see beauty being so over-emphasized. One        wonders if beauty makes insignificant other essential qualifications which        are to be reasonably expected from a prospective wife. In our society this        growing preference for 'tall, fair' brides is a cause for concern. In days        gone by such undue importance was not given to beauty of the bride. People        generally asked, 'Is she literate?', 'Does she cook well?', 'Is she good        at housekeeping?'. These virtues weighed more in favor of the bride than        mere physical charm.
The highest glory of Indian woman is her motherhood. Sanctity surrounds        her role as the deity of the home. She is special and dignified. She draws        respect from all quarters. But now she is tempted to flaunt her glamour in        front of everybody. She is degraded to the level of a commercial product        put on exhibition. Marketers flock her to make best use of her glamour to        sell off their products and fill their pockets . It is sheer exploitation.        The beautiful woman succumbs to this attracted by the fame and financial        gains.
Our country (India) is struggling hard to uplift the poor and the        down-trodden. The extravaganza of beauty contests is out of place in a        fast developing country like ours. We cannot afford it. It is atrocious.        The lakhs and crores spent on them can well go to create jobs for the        millions of unemployed youth in our country. We badly need money to tap        our natural resources to the full. There are hosts of important schemes        lying idle for want of funds. There are hundreds of projects for        fulfilling the basic needs of people which are pending completion for        dearth of finance. The money spent in conducting beauty contests can well        be diverted to welfare schemes of the country.
What is there in a beauty contest for the fair sex as a whole to be proud        of? Nothing is gained by crowning a woman as Miss World or Miss Universe.        But much will be gained by reforming the backward societies on the globe        where atrocities are committed against women, where barbarous acts like        circumcision of girls are done to this day. There are many worthwhile        missions like Mother Theresa's to be carried out. In the grim background        of destitute, wronged and neglected womenfolk all over the world the empty        glamour of a soap bubble-beauty contest-is worthless and shows the callous        indifference of the sponsors to suffering humanity.
23-Feb-2003
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