Nov 03, 2025
Nov 03, 2025
In the        debt-ridden state of Orissa, the soaring unemployment rates have brought        another twist to the dowry demands of prospective bridegrooms: jobs are        the new currency. An increasing number of educated unemployed youth are        demanding sources of employment as dowry or seeking an employed bride in        lieu of dowry.
'Expanding Dimensions of Dowry' (June 2003), a survey by the All India        Democratic Women's Association (AIDWA) on dowry practice was the first        documentation citing several jobs-as-dowry cases.
A closer study of several media reports on dowry harassment also        illustrates this trend. Recently, the media reported the case of Nilima        Sahoo from Puri district. As soon as Sahoo got a job as a health worker in        a village, an unemployed youth from the same village proposed to her. His        family did not want dowry, they were happy that Sahoo had a job.
But seven months after marriage, the health project shut down and Sahoo        was jobless. Her in-laws threw her out of their home as she could not fund        the household. Today, Sahoo, who is pregnant, stays with her parents and        hopes to find a job soon to save her marriage.
The employment scenario in Orissa is dismal. According to the latest data        available from employment exchanges in the state, there are 616,000        applications from individuals categorized as educated. Only 2,239        placements were made in 2002-03. This is only the tip of the iceberg        because not all job-seekers register with these exchanges.
The Orissa government attempted to address this problem in its Tenth Plan
(2002-07) through self-employment schemes for around 10,000,000 persons        living below the poverty line. However, in 2002-03, only 133,000 persons        were employed on daily wages. In 2003-04, this number rose slightly to        168,000.
The state ranks poorly on all socio-economic indicators, with 47 per cent        of its population living below the poverty line. Education, healthcare,        infrastructure development, agriculture and industrial growth are all in        poor shape, while infant and maternal mortality rates are high.
The low socio-economic indicators are also reflected in the skyrocketing        dowry harassment figures. According to the Human Rights Protection        Committee in the state and the Orissa Crime Branch statistics, the decade        1990-2000 registered a 460 per cent increase in dowry killings and 405.11        per cent increase in dowry torture as compared to 1980-90.
The new mutation that dowry harassment has gone through - livelihood        through dowry - throws up several heartbreaking cases. When Mahanadi Coal        Fields Ltd took over mining areas in Talcher, it promised one job for each        displaced family. Five women were in line for these jobs and five        unemployed youth came forward to marry them. They married in 1992. When        the years dragged on and the women did not get the promised jobs, their        husbands abandoned them.
The AIDWA study has revealed that this trend is not limited to        economically marginalized classes. The study says: "Several middle- and        upper-income group families interviewed said that they were trying to        organize an NGO (register one) for the prospective bridegroom - because        that is what he had demanded!" They specifically demand NGOs that have        been registered for three years - the eligibility criteria for overseas        funding.
Tapashi Praharaj, head of AIDWA's Orissa chapter, says that the trend is        particularly noticeable these days in small towns and coastal districts.
Banaja Raol's case (2000) is a grim reminder of the serious damage that        dowry is capable of causing. Raol's wedding was fixed, with the groom's        side agreeing to forego 'normal' dowry in view of the stability that her        government job offered. Before the marriage, however, she lost her job        when the Orissa government retrenched staff to deal with a financial        crunch. The groom's family immediately called off the marriage. Humiliated        and desperate, Raol immolated herself in front of the Orissa State        Assembly.  Her suicide note read, "I have neither a job, nor can I        get married; my future stretches before me as an area of darkness. What        will I gain by living?"
There are many such stories. The fisherfolk were the worst affected by the        super-cyclone of 1999. With fishing dinghies destroyed, the men sat at        home, unable to earn a living. Soon, grooms were demanding fishing boats        as dowry. Those who could scrape together enough to buy a dinghy, or had a        dinghy to give away, did so. In times when marrying off their daughters        seemed like a remote possibility, that was the price they had to pay.
Adding to the desperation of the situation is that - in the face of        spiraling unemployment - more and more educated women are now seeing        marriage as the only viable future. This helps entrench dowry even more        deeply. The AIDWA survey found that, of the 150 parents interviewed in        Puri, Cuttack, Kendrapada, Bhadrak and Sundargarh, a massive 78 per cent        believed that dowry should be given.
Namita Panda, Chairperson, Orissa State Mahila Commission, believes that        "even if dowry appears to offer a temporary reprieve from insecurity in        the pervasive unemployment scenario, the practice itself has reached such        dimensions that we are moving backwards from being civilized towards being        an uncivilized society".
Praharaj says that they are planning to work on creating associations that        will fight "dowry bribery" in Orissa. In addition to awareness generation        activities in rural areas through plays, songs and dances, they will also        organize mass oath-taking, where parents of boys will pledge to oppose        dowry.
In urban areas, they plan to hold public protests against marriages that        exceed the expenditure ceiling guidelines in the state. (Orissa has        expenditure ceiling guidelines governing marriages, that stipulate that        the combined cost of feasts and gifts to daughters during weddings should        not exceed Rs 25,000. These guidelines are, by and large, ignored and have        been criticized as being impractical.)
Unless the government, NGOs and concerned citizens take immediate and        concerted action, the menace of dowry will continue to claim the lives of        many more women.  
31-Jul-2005
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