| (A tribute to my father on Father’s Day) You did not start your day,as I clearly remember on this day,
 without offering your morning prayer.
 Our small temple in the northeast corner of our home
 you kept spick and span.
 Mother carefully arranged on a plateyour puja material: flowers from our garden,
 a coconut from our tree, a lamp,
 incense sticks, a few basil leaves, some sweets
 and a jar of fresh water from our well.
 I tagged behind you,to confess now I shall not hesitate,
 sweets and pieces of coconut to share and taste…
 But one thing I recall;You sat eyes closed
 and the deity too in the same posture.
 Did you converse with your god, father?
 I could not hear your silent dialogue then,
 but today I can - it is louder and clear.
 Between the deity and youI see more of god in you –
 Your eyes exuded kindness,
 your voice was full of affection
 and your touch was soft and tender…
 The words of wisdom of the ancient seerring in my ear:
 Pitah Dharmah, pitah swargah,
 Pitari param tapah –
 Father is the way of life,
 Father is the Heaven
 And in him lies the highest penance.
 
 
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